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How to manage yourself when someone doesn’t repent

What do you do when you’ve confronted someone close to you about a way they are hurting or violating your relationship and they refuse to repent? In these situations, we are most tempted to move into the role of judge, punisher, or controller—but the moment we do is the moment we begin to violate the relationship ourselves. In this vlog, I explain why we must choose the path of forgiveness, self-control, and courageous honesty when someone we love is unrepentant. Watch here!

Who’s in Your “God Spot”?

Who’s in Your “God Spot”?

Getting this priority relationship right is the key to getting our relationships with ourselves and others right. One of the most obvious signs that God is in our God Spot is that our relationships start to grow and flourish. Conversely, one of the biggest signs that God is not in our God Spot is that our relationships are out of order. 

Why Jesus Told Us to Ask, Seek, and Knock

Why Jesus Told Us to Ask, Seek, and Knock

Some preachers discourage us from making our prayer life solely about coming to God with our “needs list.” But frankly, most of us have the opposite problem, and I think this is the main reason Jesus was so passionate about teaching us to take this posture of communication with the Father.